Words by Philip M M (Appachan)

Last Sunday I heard a Message at a CNI Malayalam Church.

It tell what happens after Marriage whether it is After dating or arranged by parents.

There are three Tenses (Past Present and Future)

But it is Not in that order after Marriage. The Vrthaman Kalam comes first. After marriage during honeymoon and for some more time more it is Varthamana Kalam (Always together and talking incessantly.

Then comes the Bhavi Kalam ( Future.)They have to think about the future. Work hard for a house, Cothing, Childrens education and so on.

Then Comes the Bhootha Kalam That is Past (in malayalam it is Devil or Ghost)

When the Husband is coming home Wife will tell the Children There comes the KALAMADAN. When wife comes home the Husband will tell the children " there come the BHADRAKALI. KUTTICHATHANMAR will only laugh at this comments.

Marriage is Designed by God, Desired by God and Demanded by God to be stable stick to one.

When Challenges comes in life Believers are supposed to come to God and get his advice. But If you keep on your Selfishness it will be Bhootha kalam mostly. You can make it Varthamana Kalam if you seeks God's Help and prepared to leave your Selfishness.